Falling in Love

Right from the beginning, I never understood the word called "Love"....although I respect all those who pretend to be in love....time and again.

so far my experience of life makes me think that love is collaboration of a lot of feelings and that’s why, What I understand is affection for someone....care for someone...Willingness to spent our whole life with someone, sharing all the moments, all the emotions, all the up and downs, all the responsibilities, all the power and... List goes on.....

I strongly believe that a relationship must be on the basis of matured decision of two and not based on only infatuation or thirst for sex.i know and accept that a relationship is bound to start from infatuation but if that is the only guiding force then I m certain it will end within flashes. We should understand that being a guy we have different way of dealing with our life (most of the time it’s a wrong way....) and at the same time our partner being a girl has their own way to deal with the same. I don't have any hesitation in accepting that personally I find myself a bit kiddish at time and wish that if I could have acted more appropriately at times, it would be great....In the same time when I remember my friends who are girls(And its not same as girl friends....),I admire their balanced life style.hmmmmmm....It may be because of attraction towards friends of opposite gender but it can't be so strong that I can just criticize myself......so there is some substance in their overall persona(at least most of them....).

After comparing mars and Venus in my own way, the second point I would like to talk on is falling in love...well as said by some unknown genius and repeated by many of my friends: - "Don't fall in love, but rise in love!!!"But how to do so??? well if I have to say then it is as simple as that ....I will love someone because she might be very beautiful(first and important reason which we all have but perhaps no one wants to accept..) then she might be different from others in the way she carries her self.....in the sense she talks, she walks and ....then all together we can say that her overall personality could be so attractive that I will feel that she might the one with whom I can forget everyone in this world.....

Now after so much of positive thoughts why is it so that most of us don't find them selves comfortable when we come to know that our partner doesn't thinks same for us???.....Because we are Human being and we have a disastrous heart to put ourselves in difficult situations, if not always then quite often!!!Rite..... But is it a strong reason to destroy our carrier....our life?

Certainly, Not...but most of us does......And I m proud to say that at least I did not.....What should be the best peel at the time when we are down with "love's hang-over"......well! Reasons may be our family...our friends and all those who loves us....have faith on us....have expectations from us...and somewhere the hope to get her back....or just to convince her that her decisions can't be always rite!!!! It might be so that by the time you prove a point it may be so late and she might have got someone in her life but then also don't u feel that at least by achieving ur goals in life you can prove a point to all.....And point is quite clear..

That You are a strong person....you feel sad for her not being with you but that can't just shatter you.....You can motivate yourself to get anything and everything and what more is that you understand your responsibilities towards your family..And your loved ones and you can fulfill them in best possible manner. It will not only prove a point to others but it will also give a big boost to your confidence,.....and success will become your habbit.I know most of you who would read this blog will say why to prove a point to a girl who doesn't love u??And my answer will be sorry but it’s a hard fact that even we can pretend not to remember her but we hardly do anything without keeping her in our mind.....


Without writing a big story on this I would love to come on the bottom line, we should be always clear what we want out of our life, no matter what!!! Believe me if some one doesn't love us in return, Theirs nothing wrong till we understand that they have their own preferences.....but what more we should understand is that its not the end, Its the beginning....its going to make You more matured more thoughtful and ultimately it will make you a person who will understand the importance and will respect his relationship a lot, in future....a person who will respect his partner and all those moments which he had miss in past....


So cheers for a bright future and don't creep on what you lost...[:)] and please let me know if you want to share something more on this....

Signing Off:

Dhiraj Singh